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toss a coin..

Posted in quotes. :P on December 10, 2009 by xianelle


not too old..

Posted in quotes. :P on November 9, 2009 by xianelle



Posted in :), quotes. :P on October 17, 2009 by xianelle

i’m not going to be his first, his last or his only..

he loved before and he’ll love again..

but he loves me now.. what else matters?!

he’s not perfect and im not either..

if he can make me laugh and he admits to being human and makes mistakes..

i’ll hold on to him and give him the most i can..

he’s not going to be thinking of me every moment of the day,

but he’ll give me a part of him that he knows i can break..-his heart ♥-

so i won’t hurt him, i won’t change him, i won’t analyze and i won’t expect more than he can give..

i’ll smile when he makes me happy.. :)

let him know when he makes me mad and miss him when he’s not around

coz perfect guys dont exist.. but there’s always one man that’s perfect for me…:)


To Me

Posted in quotes. :P on September 22, 2009 by xianelle


The One That Got Away..

Posted in quotes. :P with tags on September 22, 2009 by xianelle

In your life, you’ll make note of a lot of people. Ones with whom you shared something special, ones who will always mean something. There’s the one you first kissed, the one you first loved, the one you lost your virginity to, the one you put on a pedestal, the one you’re with …and the one that got away.

Who is the one that got away?

I guess it’s that person with who everything was great, everything was perfect, but the timing was just wrong. There was no fault in the person, there was no flaw in the chemistry, but the cards just didn’t fall the right way, I suppose. I believe in the fact that ending up with someone, finding a long time partner that is, does not lie merely in the other person. I can actually argue that an equal part, or maybe even the greater part, has to do with the matter of timing.

It has to do with you being ready to settle down and commit to someone in a way that goes beyond the little niceties of giddy romance. How often have you gone through it without even realizing it? When you’re not ready to commit in that mature manner, it doesn’t matter who you’re with, it just doesn’t work. Small problems become big; inconsequential become deal breakers simply because you’re not ready and it shows. It’s not that you and the person you’re with are no good; it’s just that it’s not yet right, and little things become the flashpoint of that fact.

Then one day you’re ready. You really are. And when this happens you’ll be ready to settle down with someone. He or she may not be perfect, they might not be the brightest star of romance to ever have burned in your life, but it’ll work because you’re ready. It’ll work because it’s the right time and you’ll make it work. And it’ll make sense, it really will. The day comes when you’re finally making sense of things, and you find yourself to be a different person. Things are different, your approach is different, you finally understand who you are and what you want and you’ve become ready because the time has truly arrived. And mind you, there’s no telling when this day will come.

Hopefully you’re single… but you could be in a long-term relationship, you could be married with three kids, it doesn’t matter. All you know is that you’ve changed, and for some reason, the one that got away, is the first person you think about. You’ll think about them because you’ll wonder, “What if they were here today?” You’ll wonder, “What if we were together now, with me as I am and not as I was?”

That’s what the one that got away is. The biggest “What if?” you’ll have in your life.

If you’re married, you’ll just have to accept the fact that the one that got away, got away. Believe me, no matter how fairy tale you think your marriage is, this can happen to the best of us. But hopefully you’re mature enough to realize that if you’re already with the one you’re with, that this is just another test of your commitment, one which will just strengthen your marriage when you get past it. Sure, you’ll think about him/her every so often, but it’s alright. It’s never nice to live with a “might have been,” but it happens.

Maybe the one that got away is the one who’s already married. In which case it’s the same thing. You just have to accept and know that your memories of that person will probably bring a nice little smile to your lips in the future when you’re old and gray and reminiscing.

But if neither of that is the case, then it’s different. What do you do if it’s not yet too late? Simple… find him, find her. Because the very existence of a “one that got away” means that you’ll always wonder, what if you got that one? Ask him out to coffee; ask her out to a movie, it doesn’t matter if you’ve dropped in from out of nowhere. You’d be surprised, you just might be “the one that got away” as well for the person who is your “the one that got away.” You might drop in from out of nowhere and it won’t make a difference.

If the timing is finally right, it’ll all just fall into place somehow. And it would be a great feeling, if in the end, you’d be able to say to someone, “Hey you, you’re the one that almost got away.”

To Every Guy.. ♥

Posted in quotes. :P on September 7, 2009 by xianelle

To Every Guy that has said, “You’re beautiful.”

To Every Guy that has said, “Sex CAN wait.”

To Every Guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.

To Every Guy that gives flowers and a card.

To Every Guy who has given her flowers just because.

To Every Guy that said he would die for her.

To Every Guy that really would.

To Every Guy that did what she wanted to do.

To Every Guy that cried in front of her.

To Every Guy that she cried in front of.

To Every Guy that holds hands with her.

To Every Guy that hugs her when she’s sad.

To Every Guy that hugs her for no reason at all.

To Every Guy who would give their jacket up for her.

To Every Guy that calls(or texts) to make sure she got home safe.

To Every Guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.

To Every Guy that would give his seat up.

To every guy that just wants to cuddle.

To Every Guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.

To Every Guy who told his secrets to her.

To Every Guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.

To Every Guy that thought maybe this could be the one.

To Every Guy that believed in her dreams.

To Every Guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.

To Every Guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.

To Every Guy that walked her to her house.

To Every Guy that gave his heart.

To Every Guy who prays that she is happy even if he is not with her.

To Every Guy is willing to wait for years just to prove his love for her.

To Every Guy who still prioritizes God instead of making the girl as the sun of his life.

Words for women to live by.. ;)

Posted in fun!, quotes. :P with tags on September 7, 2009 by xianelle

1. Aspire to be Barbie – the bitch has everything.

2. If the shoe fits – buy them in every color.

3. Take life with a pinch of salt… A wedge of lime, and a shot of tequila. 😉

4. In need of a support group? – Cocktail hour with the girls!

5. Go on the 30 day diet. (I’m on it and so far I’ve lost 15 days).

6. When life gets you down – just put on your big girl panties and deal with it.

7. Let your greatest fear be that there is no PMS and this is just your personality.

8. I know I’m in my own little world, but it’s ok. They know me here.

9. Lead me not into temptation, I can find it myself.

10. Don’t get your knickers in a knot; it solves nothing and makes you walk funny.

11. When life gives you lemons – turn it into lemonade then mix it with vodka and party!

12. Remember where ever there is a good looking; sweet, single or married man there is some woman tired of his bullshit! (oh yeah!)

13. Keep your chin up, only the first 40 years of parenthood are the hardest.

14. If it has Tires or Testicles it’s gonna give you trouble.

15. By the time a women realizes her mother was right, she has a daughter who thinks she’s wrong.

‘Good friends are like stars………You don’t always see them, but you know they are always there’ ‘Remember yesterday, dream about tomorrow, but live for today’. Now smile and send to any girl wasting time at work, suffering from a hangover, or just suffering from life , that might need a reason to smile!